As a friend I need to be honest with you about my wrong thinking:
It may seem crazy but my entire life I have always wanted to live a life of
grand adventure, go on journeys, throw caution to the wind ... yeah, you get it
But instead:
My life has been filled with bumps,
bruises, broken bones, broken hearts, deaths, that always left me wondering when
I would live this life of adventure I longed for my whole life ~ I was
sorely disappointed and fought depression more than I fought for causes
Until:
I had a stroke that took me to the edge of death .....
~ A stroke that still affects me to
this day
This changed my life and I learned a secret that I
never noticed before then
OK - backup:
As an avid reader I loved adventure especially during the medieval literature
such as
~The Faerie Queene ~Beowulf ~Sir
Gawain and the Green Knight ~Saga of the Volsungs ~Don Quixote
...
While in the hospital mending and
healing I realized that I have two choices laid out before me
The Bible explains:
Deuteronomy 30:19
This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live
1) I could be bitter like all the others on my floor (whooo - they were bitter
& nasty)
or
2) I can take on this challenge and fight to come back . . .
I chose to:
~ F I G H T ~
I am still here, alive after a fight
unlike any other ...
So ~
What did I learn?
We look at
difficulties with a wrong viewpoint on hardships - instead, this is an
opportunity to test and prove who we are. Meet those challenges head on
and overcome because hardships are going to come, become a warrior
Just like those
adventure novels I would get lost in, you and I are already living EPIC tales
of Adventure with ripe plots filled with journeys, strange worlds, facing great
odds with dangers, struggles, hardships, escapes and close calls to where it
seems like no end is in sight – yet we, the protagonists, make it through becoming
a larger-than-life hero/ heroine with the sweetness of overcoming..... so
change the way you look at things
This is the stuff
people have written about down through the ages, real and created, and I have
come to the conclusion that an adventure filled life is not just when things go
smoothly but includes all of the good mingled with adversity that makes
us and our journey come to life.
The next time you encounter a hard time or
trial - either it be physical, financial, loss, family challenges - what are
you going to do?
Some secrets I have learned:
1) First and foremost
- PRAY, I stay on my knee
2) Decide - give up
or fight
3) Surround yourself
with strong, trustworthy friends & family who have your
back.
After all, even Frodo Baggins had Samwise Gamgee - we were not created to be
lone wolves - there is a reason they are in packs.
Blessings to you ~
...as you rethink your life, stop existing and
begin living your own Epic Journey called Life
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